Hello Fellow Communication Enthusiasts,<\/p>\n
Today\u2019s post is about what you can do to communicate with comfort and trustworthiness.<\/p>\n
Many business leaders, politicians and public speakers need to get a clear message out to their audience to \u201ctrust me\u201d, \u201cfollow me\u201d and \u201cbelieve me\u201d.\u00a0 Right now in Ontario, Canada we are in the middle of a race to elect the next (or same<\/i>) Premier.\u00a0 Will it be the current Liberal leader Dalton McGuinty, PC Tim Hudak or NDP Andrea Horwath?\u00a0 I have been doing some interviews with media on body language analysis and public speaking techniques for the voters to pay attention to as they watch their would-be leaders on television.<\/p>\n
Let\u2019s look at the 3Vs<\/strong> of communicating with comfort and trustworthiness. Vocally,<\/strong><\/em> your voice and speech need to be a lower tone\/pitch, use medium speed with pauses before and after key words, phrases and points, and use medium volume with a clear voice.\u00a0 You are going for a rhythm that is at times melodic or hypnotic but without putting people to sleep!\u00a0 And you will match certain gestures with your stressed words.<\/p>\n Visually<\/strong> <\/em>to establish rapport and trust, you need to be open and friendly (approachable<\/i>) in your body language, use an engaging smile or even a laugh if appropriate, and not be wearing a \u2018power suit\u2019.\u00a0 In this case we are attempting to create warmth and trust, not separation from the common group.\u00a0 Your hands should gesture in open, symmetrical ways and predominantly be in front of the belly or up to the heart level.\u00a0 Speaking \u2018from the heart\u2019 is great for our goals of rapport, comfort and trust.<\/p>\n Lastly, do not rock back and forth or side to side when speaking, and do not back up when making your points.\u00a0 The audience will read this as a dis-connect between your words and non-verbal communication and it will be a problem.\u00a0 Your base needs to be as solid as a rock, but your upper body of course gestures smoothly and appropriately with the chosen words.<\/p>\n I hope you use these 3V communication tips the next time you have to win an audience over.\u00a0 If you are interested in learning more please check out more blog posts, and if you feel you would benefit from a personal assessment then contact me and we can set something up.<\/p>\n Enjoy your day and if you are in Ontario enjoy the upcoming election debate.\u00a0 I know I will be watching the 3 leaders with a keen eye to see how they make us feel<\/em> <\/strong>when they speak.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Hello Fellow Communication Enthusiasts, Today\u2019s post is about what you can do to communicate with comfort and trustworthiness. Many business leaders, politicians and public speakers need to get a clear message out to their audience to \u201ctrust me\u201d, \u201cfollow me\u201d and \u201cbelieve me\u201d.\u00a0 Right now in Ontario, Canada we are in the middle of a […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"nf_dc_page":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[544,533,534],"tags":[539,540,556,587],"class_list":["post-294","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-body-language","category-interpersonal-communications","category-professional-communications","tag-3v-communications","tag-3v-effect","tag-build-rapport","tag-politics"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack-related-posts":[],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.communicationcoach.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/294","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.communicationcoach.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.communicationcoach.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.communicationcoach.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.communicationcoach.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=294"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.communicationcoach.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/294\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":673,"href":"https:\/\/www.communicationcoach.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/294\/revisions\/673"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.communicationcoach.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=294"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.communicationcoach.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=294"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.communicationcoach.ca\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=294"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}
\nVerbally<\/em><\/strong>, you need to use words that engage, build rapport quickly, and establish trust.\u00a0 Use these words\/phrases like these:
\nFriends, \u2026
\nFellow (Ontarians, Canadians, Business leaders, etc<\/i>.)\u2026
\nWe are all in this together\u2026
\nWe all want to avoid a (mistake, economic recession, higher taxes, etc.)<\/i>
\nI want to assure you that\u2026
\nI trust that\u2026
\nYou can trust that\u2026
\nYou can believe me when I say\u2026
\nBelieve me, I will\u2026
\nEtc.<\/p>\n