{"id":29,"date":"2011-10-24T05:36:00","date_gmt":"2011-10-24T05:36:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.communicationcoach.ca\/blog\/?p=29"},"modified":"2015-03-14T19:10:56","modified_gmt":"2015-03-14T23:10:56","slug":"do-you-prefer-the-staff-to-be-nameless-or-individuals","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.communicationcoach.ca\/blog\/do-you-prefer-the-staff-to-be-nameless-or-individuals\/","title":{"rendered":"Do You Prefer the Staff to be Nameless or Individuals?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div><span style=\"font-family: Arial; font-size: 10.0pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;\">My wife and I recently went to <b style=\"mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;\"><i style=\"mso-bidi-font-style: normal;\">Summerhill<\/i> <i style=\"mso-bidi-font-style: normal;\">Spa<\/i><\/b> to redeem our freebie (<i style=\"mso-bidi-font-style: normal;\">mentioned below<\/i>), and the first thing I should get out of the way is that the 90-minute hot stone therapy massages were great and we were satisfied.<span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes;\">\u00a0 <\/span>We tipped well to show our gratitude.<\/span><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: Arial; font-size: 10.0pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;\">The one thing my wife and I both noticed and thought odd, and is the subject of this blog post, was that no one introduced themselves, either when we came into the establishment nor right before our massages were to start.<span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes;\">\u00a0 <\/span>They were all Asians in black \u2013 well one had a white T-shirt on, but essentially if you did not ask for their names you could not request the masseuse again.<span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes;\">\u00a0 <\/span>I actually did ask their names (<i style=\"mso-bidi-font-style: normal;\">as is my habit and training<\/i>) and both ladies seemed surprised.<span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes;\">\u00a0 <\/span>So my first thought was that this was a customer service training mistake, and also it was doing a dis-service to the masseuses as surely their tips and requests would rise if they introduced themselves at the beginning, built rapport and thanked the patrons as they left, giving the patron a name to go with the face and service.<\/span><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: Arial; font-size: 10.0pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;\">Then it occurred to me that perhaps the management had not over-looked something.<span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes;\">\u00a0 <\/span>Perhaps they <b style=\"mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;\"><i style=\"mso-bidi-font-style: normal;\">intentionally <\/i><\/b>did not use name-tags, and did not encourage the staff to introduce themselves.<span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes;\">\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: Arial; font-size: 10.0pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;\">Why would that be?<span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes;\">\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: Arial; font-size: 10.0pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;\">Perhaps to establish a sense of standardization of service at the spa.<span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes;\">\u00a0 <\/span>In other words \u2013 don\u2019t come to the spa just for your favourite girl, because if\/when she leaves to go work elsewhere, she might take clients with her!<span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes;\">\u00a0 <\/span>At the very least clients who\u2019d grown accustomed to her may not return.<span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes;\">\u00a0 <\/span><\/span><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: Arial; font-size: 10.0pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;\">The funny thing is as mentioned before that all the girls are Asian, so if you are not too good at differentiating between Chinese, Korean and Japanese, and if you didn\u2019t ask for names, you simply could not request the same masseuse you had for the next time.<span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes;\">\u00a0 <\/span>You would have to trust in the standardization of quality of the \u2018Women in Black\u2019. <\/span><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: Arial; font-size: 10.0pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;\">I don\u2019t know which way is better, and I don\u2019t know for sure why the management decided to use this no-name style.<span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes;\">\u00a0 <\/span>Do you have any thoughts?<\/span><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: Arial; font-size: 10.0pt; mso-bidi-font-size: 12.0pt;\">For now I think I am going to stick to my belief and communication skills training that says that a name is the most wonderful sound in the world to a person, and to be remembered by someone is flattering and the beginning of building rapport and a healthy relationship.<span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes;\">\u00a0 <\/span>I always endeavor to remember names of folks in the service industry, especially at places I frequent.<span style=\"mso-spacerun: yes;\">\u00a0 <\/span>I think I would hope for the same from others.\u00a0 What do you think\/prefer?<br \/>\n<\/span><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My wife and I recently went to Summerhill Spa to redeem our freebie (mentioned below), and the first thing I should get out of the way is that the 90-minute hot stone therapy massages were great and we were satisfied.\u00a0 We tipped well to show our gratitude. 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